there is always a moment of clarity.

so i guess there is always a moment that you realize you have to walk away. there should always be a base line level of respect toward each other but if there is not that level then you have to walk away. its never really easy. if you don't walk away you fall into something that you not really what you want. respect for me is one of those non-negotiable. i don't ask to always be number one, in fact i don't feel bad being number two at times. i love to assist in helping someone else shine. i find joy in other people's success'. the thing for me though is if someone can not even meet me a basic level of respect then i walk. i don't hold grudges. i'm too happy to hold grudges. i just want to keep people who are going to really be down for me in my life. if i know that someone is really down for me then they have a life partner. i will be in their corner at all times to help them reach their goals. i am true and understanding and forgiving and for the lucky people that i let into my world then you have my unconditional love and respect.